Poverty is nothing but a human creations. Poverty is an orphan.no body wants to associate with the poor. Poverty is tasted and created through life recklesness. Poverty could be ascribed to lost of brighter life opportunities. Poverty engenders loneliness, dejectedness, low self esteem, and fear of the unknown. Show me a poor man, and I will rate his level of aggressive fear of the unknown. Poverty can make a man become afraid of himself in every aspect of his life. Most of the things that triggered fears in the minds of the poor, could be regarded as things that are merely irrelevant. Due to the fact that they oftentimes believed they just want to be careful about life in it's self. This has created alot for the poor, having misconception while trying meeting up with those whose opportunity has shouldered on them to elevate the poor from their poor status to a more comfortable lifestyle. Some of the overt signs to notice when poverty is severely knocking at ur door post are as follows:
(1)Poor perception :perception in a layman understanding, simply means ur entire emotional regards over a thing. Emotions is wealth when it is been charneled towards the right directions. Ur emotions, controls ur futuristic ventures. And if such emotion , terms to be a negative emotions, it demoralize ur future endeavors. The emotions u created for ur self, gives room on how ur life is can be shaped. Tackle ur emotions if urs is negative.
(2)created decision for poverty:riches and wealth are created not automatic. Therefore, poverty is also created by the decisions u undertake. The bible said, "As a man thinketh, so shall he. Ur thinking abilities, is a transporter of where u should belong. U are not poor because u are from a poor background. But ur poor because u hav refused to identify what made ur parents became poor and has refused to tackle them with the right method of thinking. U Must be able to think to be great before u can become great. our thinking capacity is a revolver of our emotional intelligence. Every decisions taking, ur emotional intelligence is greatly responsible for it. Ur poor decisions to certain issues, is the responsibilities of how u hav structured ur brain power development and its functionabilities.
(3)Living above ur means:those who live above their means, do not exhibit such nostalgic behavior because they are comfortable with it, because they hav made themselves appeared somewhat higher than their personal means of income to the public, therefore, the public must not see them below such class of personality. Truth has always been regarded as a lie in the Nigeria context of truth. While lies is now been replaced as truth if such lies is been backed by any evidence regardless of how such evidence emanated from. Let me tell u a story that happened some years back. I met one pretty girl on the campus, I introduced my humble self as a movie producer and an entertainer. She replied"okay so how may I help u? And I told her I liked her and would like to go out with her. She replied "that will be fine but am having some financial issues. And I asked, what is the problem? She said her school fees. Behold, my fmr PA was carrying closed to half a million naira in my handbag he was holding. Dear friend, I was about to take a decision to assist her for her school fees since I had already made up my mind to spend the money in the club that day when this young guy who is not even good looking drove in to interrupt our conversation. I was not with my car, my car evidently broke down that faithful day so I took it to the mechanic and decided to jump into a public university shuttle where I met her. Dear friends, the young guy began to ask the same girl out. Before I could spelt cliff, the pretty young girl jumped into the guy's car and they drove off to a nearby hotel, yeye all her body dat day.... After some minutes, the mechanic called me to come pick my car. From the mechanic, I drove down to see my hotel manager's friend. Behold, I was discussing with him when some group of boys walked into the hotel looking for the same guy that chanced me with the pretty girl. Luckily, the stupid guy and the said girl was coming out of their lodged room when the boys bounced on him demanding for the car key and their 200k debt. The girl saw me right there at the center of the whole scenes and was unreservably ashamed of her self. The said car the yahoo guy used to get her was hired. The money she went for, she didn't get it either. Dear friends, the same girl could not allow the entire scenario to pass off before coming to beg for forgiveness? Dear friends, if u where me, what would u do?
(4)poor planning method:dear friends, your planning system, is ur reward system. How u planned ur life today, is what u will get tomorrow. If u hav a faulty planned systems, poverty is knocking at ur door. No success without planning. No reasonable person wants to know how u live ur bogus life today without taking proper assessment on ur present investment. A certain lady was asking a friend of mine to buy her an iPhone. Yet she has no job. Isn't that foolishness? So my friend laughed at her stupidity. My friend confined in me that if she had asked for money for her own business, he would hav giving it to her. He said"cliff, do u know buying her iPhone will make me spend more on her because she gat no job? He believed, that he will still be the one buying recharge card for her iPhone! Lol
(5)poor risking pattern :A man who can not take risk for what he want, is already a failure. Live is full with trials. The poor are afraid of risk taking which I believed has conditioned their mindset to remain where they are! Every rich man, is a risk takers. Haven't u hard how some of out richest business men across the globe make substantial gain and lost in the equity market? For any woman to be rich, she must hav the mindset of a prostitute who is not afraid of anything in life. Those who survive risk taking ventures, are been celebrated as our living heros today! Afterall, is better to die trying to achieve what u want in life, than to die living ur visions unachieved.
The wise ones, sees through their inner eyes, the unwise will continue to watch without seeing any thing. Be wise.
For most of u disturbing, and calling why I hav not made any article for some times now, I just want to tell u that it was a technical problem from my network provider. I don't lack on any topic to write about. It is inborn in me to write.
My name is Clifford igwe aka cliffdboss, prolific writer, motivational speaker, movie producer, event mc, exponent of political psychology, author "introduction to political psychology, the man blessed with too much knowledge and wisdom. Titled giving to me by my fans across the globe. The only writer that has written more than five thousand articles within two years.
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