Early warning signs are substantially essential in defining every relationship. Many relationship are suffering alot of crisis, due to the inability of the woman to have noticed those early warning signs during their six or eight months formative relationship. This has rendered many home unviable.the quintessential for any productive relationship , starts with the foundation such relationship was built on. Therefore, if the foundation of the relationship is faulty, it becomes unproductive or evidently characterized with unresolvable differences. please, do not aportion Any irony of blames to any body. , rather, u have to wake up to ur challenges and start identifying some of ur unreasonable mistakes that has placed u into ur present state of helplessness. I oftentimes, tell some of my female friends who are extremely closed to me, that u can build something out of nothing. Once a certain behavior has been formed, it takes alot of psychological procedures to bring such an abnormal behavior to an acceptable behavior that are unfrawned by the society at large.
If he exhibit the following behavior during ur formative relationship, pls, take a walk out of the relationship. For example.
(1)unapologetic behavior : this factor has been found by many arrogant men who see, s apologies as a way for letting down their personalities if they intentionally say I am very sorry to the woman. Proper apologies, is like an antidote for any future crisis. Apologies have a way of calming every tensed situations if is been said remorsefully. This factor has caused a lot of home into a total dissrary. As well as brought many families into a state of mockry and subjects for idle discussions. Ladies, if that man finds it difficult to say am sorry, pls take a walk out of such relationship because ur emotions and feelings matters nothing to him. An unapologetic man, is capable of unleashing evil to the woman at his own will.
(2)if he is not domesticating, he is not for u:look ladies, every real men, are sometimes domesticating during their free period from their numerous office or business engagements . real men cooks for their women occasionally. What this means, is that they do this in order to build up their romantic relationships with the woman in solidying the love foundation of their relationship to a taste of time. Look, when ever that lady in the kitchen , is cooking for the man, a domesticating man, will join her in the kitchen. plays with her or cracking some jokes for the woman to make her woman feel relaxed and happy while cooking his food. In doing this, the woman see, s the cooking as a source for happiness not stress. Guys, image u teasing her while in the kitchen cooking that delicious meal for u? . She will do all her best to make sure she gives u the best of her cooking prowees. I remembered during my childhood stage seen my dad serving my mom her breakfast on her bed! Guys, through out that day, my mom will be fillled with joy! She will never shout at us nor spank at us at any provocative mistakes. This to me, is romantic and another way of telling the woman I truly love u. Imagine husband and wife who are working class couple, the man arrives home very early, while the wife, s
working arrival time is 6:30pm. There is no food at home, but there are food stuff at home but he decided to keep him self hungry waiting for the arrival of his wife to prepare him food to eat. In this case, when the woman finally arrives home 8pm due to holdup, the man began to shout at her to enter the kitchen and prepare him his meal. Common, is such woman his slave? And if she decides to take a rest a bit, he beats her up for disrespecting him. This attitude is a classical example of barbarianism in nature. Ladies shine ur eyes!
(3)if he is hurt tempered,pls take a walk! Alot of crisis in any relationship with its re-ocourence decimal, in which has made many women packed out of their matrimonial home. , citing irreconcilable differences as the reasons for their breakup. These are evidently caused by bartering stimulus response.. A man who is giftedly grumpy, sees beating his woman as a way of expression of his anger over any little differences. Instead of using dialogue in resolving issues. Many lives has been lost, many casualties has been recorded, and many families now enemies due to this singular act of illogicalities of behavour. Ladies, a woman beater, does not beats a woman because he hates her, but he uses that to express his aggressive behavior to her woman.. I can tell u unequivocally, that there are some men who doesn't beat their women, yet still drives them out of his home when she offends him. Now, a womAn beater, beats up his woman and still allows her to stay in the relationship or marriage. So therefore, beating a woman, is not a way for saying that man hates or does not love her because he beats her up. This is just a product of irrational thinking, not insufficient love for the woman! Is better to avoid crisis, than solving crisis. When the man beats her up provocatively, such man can never change such behavioral tendencies. ladies, is either u began to live with it or u take a walk for ur safety. And if u must live with it, u must re-examine ur self to avoid those attitudes u often exhibit that do caused him beat u up severely.
(4)if he is a stingy man, pls take a walk:ladies, is better to date a broke ass guy than to date a rich stingy man. Of what benefit to u having a rich guy who could not give u any thing ? Or is it just to enter in the front of his exotic car to claim ur dating a rich man? This is poor reasoning. Ladies, if he is rich but stringy, that man is not for u. Every responsible man will want his woman to look good and have good things in life as long as he can afford them. The pride of a man, is in the inward and the outward appearance of his wife or partner.
(5)if he lacks respect for u, pls walk out:respect they say is reciprocal. If that man whom u cherish alot talks to u any how, undermining how u feel, he is not for u. Ladies, anger can make a man talks carelessly to his woman. But when that anger is gone and he refuses to come back to his senses by Given u reasons he shouted at u, as well as say pls, forgive me my love. That man is not for u!
(6)Don't date a careless spender with no investment :every man, is a potential rich person. Wealth or riches, is never authomatic or a rocket science. But through association and well designed future. Nothing happens for nothing. Every seed, awaits harvest time. The actual reasons many unreasonable girls ends up marrying a poor man, is because, they refused to see beyond their nose. Ladies, when that careless spender is given to u everything u want, but refused to invest for a better future, such love is a futuristic dilemma. Now, u began to build a strong love for him due to the sufficient amount of money ur getting from him with no investment, business, nor good job. now, he finally impregnate u out of wedlock. However, after some months, u finds out that the money he spent on you where not genuine money, and within sometime, he became broke. Ladies, now u have no choice because he had put u in a family way! Responsible women, dates men with great vision, and work asidiously in fulfilling his visions. irresponsible woman goes after what they see not what they believe. No responsible man would shun a woman that believed in his dream, contributes to his vision, prays for his success for any forms of slay queen or slay mamas! We haven't asked our selves why 2face left all the baby mamas for Annie idibia? Look, that woman is one of the virtuous woman we have in nig. Her steadfast love for her man was superb. As such, 2face chooses her out of many. Ladies, stop dating a man with poor or no visions, because he will become a products of poverty in the neatest future.
For the fact that he spents on you with no investment, is a clear indication that he is a future poor man. Investment, is wealth. Wealth, is also a product of proper investment.
Ladies, a word is enough for The WisE.
My name is Clifford igwe, aka cliff dboss, prolific writer, motivational speaker, event mc, exponent political psychology, author, introduction to political psychology. And the man blessed with knowledge and wisdom. Titled b my fans across the globe.
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