Fundamental questions of life"dboss"

 Life is a bundles of uncertainty where one lacks the cogent tendencies to determine how life generally should be designed.  with out the ultimate nature of God, s original plans for mankind, no man hav the will power to structure how life treats him. Life throws to humans both ups and down to his glory. The element of pre-determinency of life, is a yardstick to acknowledge the supremacy of God and how he orchestratedly designed life for mankind.  We oftentimes asked several unanswered fundamental questions, why is life this way?  why is life that way?  Some even said life is not fair due to the level of perseverance of hardship occasioned by what life donates to mankind. These however, has affords us the opportunity to have a deeper reflection of how we all started and how we should all end it. We must ask our self some basic questions, why was I created in the first place? What is my purpose here on earth? Am I affecting lives positively or negatively? The kind of life am proudly living, does it glorify my maker? How did I become  whom i am today? After going through some mental cogitations, we therefore arrived,  life in its self is not self dependent but a supreme entity that is collaborative with a subjects. Life, can only exist with a subject not an object. Take away subjects which simply identified living organisms,life in its self will become apparently domicile. We must accept the facts that nothing remains forever. Therefore, what ever positions we found ourselves, is temporarily occupied. As matter of facts, before u assumed that position, someone was there before u, therefore, u will obviously leave the said position for another person to occupy. Any position we occupied, we must use it for the benefits of mankind. Yesterday it was 2face been the African giant, today, burna boy has taking over. Yesterday, it was sir Louis ojukwu as the richest black man. Today, is Alico dangote. Yesterday, it was Goodluck Jonathan, today is pmb. Yesterday, it was bukola saraki as the senate president, today is Ahmed lawan. Nothing on earth is permanent therefore, bro, sir, boy, babe, pls take a chill and stop been buffed up. We haven't asked ourselves why some rich ones in the societies previously adorable by the public suddenly became a no body? Yesterday, I saw a very well designed lion head one storey building somewhere in the east. So I tried to asked some questions when was the house been built? Who owns the house? after my findings, i understood the said house was built in the 80s. I also understood, the man that built the house was actually the richest man in that community then. People from other communities oftentimes, visit the place for sight entertainment. But today, the said house has been desserted by people. The said house has been labeled as an old fashion. The worst mistake any adult could make, is to insult a promising youths whose future is in the hands of God with hopefulness. No matter what u claimed to be, u must not remain there forever. Don't act as if u own the world or the future of every body below ur class, is in ur hands. Learn how to treat people with some sorts of respect and love not all forms of disdain. No growth can be accelerated without some nutrients. We all need one another. Yesterday u where very ugly, today money has giving u a new look. Yesterday, u where a nobody, today u are well know. Yesterday, u where looking for a husband moving from one church to another. Today u are married to a rich man. Yesterday, u hardly hav three square meal a day. Today u eat carelessly as if ur entire life depend on it. Look here, what ever grace can't give to u, it is glaringly difficult to give to ur self. What ever plans different from God original plans for u, is dead on arrival. Afterall, u didn't made ur self. Stop laying claim to ur achievements as hardwork. Many must have worked harder than u did, but didn't make it. Learn how to respect God and give him the glory for every bit of ur material achievements. Some get married and became fact, others get married was fact and became slim! Is that ur making? We are pragmatically engulfed with a competitive world. Mind ur business, do ur own things, stay on ur lane if that lane is correctly favorable. No body can be u. U are just u. Learn how to avoid bad friends who are friends in the day, but a wolf at night. U haven't asked ur self why every body is not successful and great? Success and greatness is for every body, but ur ignorance has kept u stetic and unproductive. When u fail to read nor carry out research why do others successful and some a failure, u will never move forward. Learn how to invest. A fool, spend all his life savings buying things meant for the boys, while real men are busy laying a solid foundation for generations yet unborn. Real men build empires, while boys buy toys. Do some kind of self assessment of ur yesterday, Today, and ur tomorrow. In doing that, u will know what God has destined u for. When u know where God is leading u to in the nearest five years from now, u will never be deterred by ur detractors. Is like one repeating a movie he had watched before! In this regards, u already knew how the movie is going to end. Destinies are never same. Wait for ur divinely appointed time. 

Wise ones reads everything readable, the foolish ones ignores reading activities and got engaged with frivolous activities. Reading quenched ignorance. Be wise. 

My name is Clifford igwe, aka cliff dboss. Every other titles suspended until we get justice from our oppressors. For more info:mrandmrsdemocracy@mail.com 

Five important ways to keep a healthy relationship"cliff dboss"

Keeping a healthy relationship is an elusive tasks that entails totality for personal sacrifice to tolerate one another. Many relationship has been packed up due to poor tolerance emanating from such a grumpied partner who evidently see, s fault in all his/her doings as human. Two people coming together to forge a singular visions and achieve God given potentials, somewhat comes with alot of submitting to one another if such relationship must be productive.  Remember, two adult can not be together without some element of misunderstanding whatsoever. Ur family upbringing and that  of his, is differently pleasant or unpleasant. Therefore, don't expect him or her to act the way u want it to become . We are two different individuals whose visions, perceptions, cultural, education, social lifestyles differs from one another. Look, what makes any productive relationship going, is submissiveness and sufficient understanding. Dear friends, let me quickly give u the five essential elements that give a healthy relationship. 

(1)caring:caring is an act that is capable of given ur partner a nice sense of belongings in any relationship. Any relationship with lack of care, oftentimes heats  the rock. How often do u call him or her daily? How often do u chat her at ur convenient time? How often do u pay her a visit when she could not make it to ur house? How often do u give to her some cash even if is a little? When ever we show cares to one another, it energies more love and eliminate some ill mindset against one another. Learn how to show care. 

(2)social media attitude :social media has giving us great advantage to relate with our love ones irrespective of our locations. Now, what do u do when his messages on Facebook, twitter, or WhatsApp pops up when ever u open ur social media account? Do u know that some people are in the habit of ignoring messages especially when such message is an old message. Look, if ur partner sent u a message asking u, how was ur night? Dear friends, it does not matter how old the message was sent. If at all it takes u three days to log into ur account and u come across such message, pls say my night was good. It does not matter the time u are presently. Be it morning, afternoon, or night. U must reply her messages if really u love her. Stop the habit of been full of urself. Just me and I. What on earth would make someone who cares about u, asking u, how are u doing? And ur reply is fyn. Imagine ur spelling of fine u couldn't spelt correctly yet u will not ask him or her"and urs? Look, social media is all about relating to one another in which ever ways that account was opened for. If I ask u, how was ur weekend? And u said, fyn without asking and urs?  babe, u will wait until when christ will come before I will chat u again. Ofcourse my friends I do have their contacts knows that. That is not arrogance but a laid down principle. Don't force ur self on people. Who ever that wants to be left alone, pls assist him or her to be left alone. I sincerly see many guys writing or chatting their girls on Facebook, they will say hi babe, she will not reply, he will continue, how are u doing today babe?  she will be online  yet will not reply u! The foolish guy will now say have u eating today? She will not still reply u. Guy why don't u respect ur self and leave her alone. Is obvious ur chat to her annoys her. She loves someone else not u. Remember, several girls do not like guys who chats and call them often. They see ur chats or calling her often as disturbance. Vice sa versa. A guy who don't care about her and do not call often, the day he will call, she will be glad to pick his call as well as saying with excitement "hmm James, this one u remembered me today. And if she misses ur call she will get credit to call back. Lol. Anyway, is good to show care for one another often if u want a healthy relationship. 

(3)virginity stupidity. Do u know that 95 percent of girls who glaringly claims to be a virgin actually allows guys to do other things with their body? U know what I mean. Look, a virgin is a lady or a girl that does not know men or met a guy in the bedroom. U allows him do all the oral stuff, u even went oral too with him, yet u said ur a virgin? Lol. For me, I don't ascribed to that. I must know what am looking for, taste its sweetness before marriage. Afterall, having a broken relationship, is better than having a broken marriage. Don't come and tell ur parents that the reason why u left ur matrimonial home was because the man can't perform! A word is enough for the wise. 

(4)learn how to give to ur man what ever u can afford:this is for the ladies. Every responsible men, wants a productive woman. What are u bringing to the table? Stop been idle. If u lack job, pls look for one. Responsibility in a relationship is for the both parties.stop believing that every financial responsibility is only for the men. Yet u advocate for gender equality? Lol. If what a man can do, women can do better. Then stop being a house wife. Be a career woman or a business woman. Imagine a partner coming to celebrate her fiancee birthday with nothing. Not even an ordinary BYC singlet for that guy as a gift? Relationship is all about relating with one another emotionally, educationally, financially, and spiritually otherwise. Don't be a liability. 

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(5)Be submissive to one another :Been submissive produces a quality nutrients that strengthen any relationship. The man must submit to his partner too. These has nothing to do with culture. Don't build ur relationship in an autocratic manner where the woman will have no say or her own choices. The ingredients that gives peace a chance in any relationship, is when the both parties respects each others boundaries. Stop encroaching to her privacy. Stop picking her calls, stop going through her social media chats. Respect her wishes. Women generally loves respect. So respect her womanhood. 

Afteral any respect compelled through autocratic ways, does not last. Be a democrat. 

Love one another in one accord. 

My name is Clifford igwe, aka CLIFF dboss. Every other titles, are kept pending until we are sure no lives was lost at lekki tollgate. 

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How to attract a clean rich guys"cliff dbosss"

 These significant topic, will afford every young ladies who are desirous to have any man of her dream to her custody if these tools are impeccably applied. Every woman, has a choice, desired to be taking care of, loves good looking young men, loves hardworking men who can afford their luxury and extravagant lifestyles like Regina Daniels. But forgot to understand that class is the hallmark for such a material desires.A classless woman, should prepare to marry a classless man. There is no magic about that. I often hears alot of women do say, I will love to marry wizkid, Davido, and other supper rich celebrities. Some will say"cliff dboss pls connect me to this super rich celebrities. I humor at their ignorance because they refused to identify the boundaries for their class. We have never asked ourselves why governors daughters, ministers, senators, judges, and other big personalities often times gets married within their rich circles? Look here miss dreamer, ur dream will definitely be cut short because the foundation of ur parent with abject poverty, is a yard stick for u to remain poor except u do the following to alleviate ur poor status to a rich status. Just imagine a friend of mine saying he would like to marry Hannah buhari who is the daughter of our current president. And I asked him, where? How? When?and what level does he think can connect them together? The school they attend, is not for the poor, the church they attend, they are giving front seat where u can't come closed to them, except the daughter of our current vice president who was attending church drama with me at trinity house in a disguised. Back then, her father was just picked as runningmate to pmb 2010.i noticed she was asking me alot of questions but I didn't give her face cos she was not that beautiful then! But I thankGod for Tola Johnson who was the director drama department at trinity house who never shy away from the awesome opportunity! Today, he is the SSA to the vice president on SME! Even the club they attend, is VIPs where u will be bounced back! So tell me? Where would u come closed to them? U better know ur class and don't allow ur beauty deceived u! Some of the girls where even saying, "if Davido can marry chioma who was a no body, they can also marry a well known personalities! For ur information, chioma did not come from a poor home! She was never poor before davido met her. If u listen to davido assurance, listen from the verse"am looking for a sister"chioma my love! He goes on with the verse! "She geti dollars, she go follow me go Atlanta. Look here, davido made it abundantly clear to u girls that chioma was never a pauper, but a young lady swimming with some dollars! So wake up miss dreamers. Anyways, for u to attract a rich guy of ur choice, do the following :

(1)take a profession in entertainment :pretty ladies that knows the importance of their beauty.  uses their beauty  judiciously and get what they want! Rumors hard it that Genevieve once dated atiku Abubaka! Do u think if not for fame, no matter how pretty she looks, Atiku will not notice her beauty cos she had no class then.  But because she is somebody and a superstar, he identified her! Entertainment can make u meet with the president. Imagine if  someone like Ebuka of bbnaija anchor , wants to marry the daughter of a president, do u agree with me that there is possibilities in that? Dear friends,entertainment paves way! 

(2)workhard to become celebrated in ur proffession. 

(3)visit cinemas 

(4)look good with nice smells 

(5)have good manners while in the public places cos u never can tell who is admiring u! 

Tanx for reading. Know whom u are and work hard for ur bogus dream. I wish u the best of luck. 

My name is Clifford igwe. Aka cliff dboss. For the sake of end SARS protest, every other titles suspended for now until we get justice. 

Governance"cliff dboss"

 Governance is all about the people not animals. Governance entails adequate security for both the materials and the imaterials! Governance is all about growth and development. Such growth and development, must be encapsulated in a positive direction not in any negativistic drives. Governance injects fresh economic growth from one dispensation to another. Especially where leaders at all levels of governance have full knowledge on how to grow economy with the little resources at their custody. Economic growth, gives room for sufficient employment, ends youth restiveness, criminalistic tendencies, and bring, s about more job creations at all sectors of the economy. Nigerian government, has become a shadow for national development where every thing about our democratic governance has became a mirage. When ever governance is dangerously engulfed with tribal politics, the hallow effects will be protest upon protest. When  political leaders refuses to seduce her citizens with substantial development that curbs unemployment, the cascading effects, is nothing but general agitations across the geo-political zones demanding for good governance. What is going on in our dear country, shouldn't be astonishingly obnoxious to the ears of our Carlos political leaders who collectively cornered our national patrimomy to the hands of the few. Where is our conscience if we  continue to fight against those citizens who are protesting for good governance? Why shooting the protesters who peacefully demostrated their undying appetite for a quality governance and vows to end the levels of injustice in our democratic governance? How long shall we continue to manhandled a peaceful protesters without ameliorating the demands placed by the protesters?we can only kill the agitators, but will definitely not kill our agitations! Our government should learn how to kill the agitations by critically looking at the issues been rised by the citizens, and the agitators will surely be dissipated. A situation where our present crops of political leaders perceived the youths as a threat to their political aspirations, such attitude portend a great dangers to the economic wellbeing of the country. Youths are the future, the future is for the youths. When we indirectly kills the futures of the youths, we ignorantly kills the future of our generations yet unborn. No successful nations without the youths. No substantial progress can be made across the sectors of the economy without fresh ideas. And who are the fresh ideas? The youths are the engine boot of the economy. We must rise up to this occasion and began to look inwardly on how the demands made by the youths can be attended to and its solveabilities. It takes an intelligent mind to understand and forsaw the handwriting on the ward that a day will surely come where we can no longer sleep with our two eyes closed if we fail to do the needful. We have been doing our protests through our write-ups in an intellectual ways. Am gladly one person that loves the success and the unity of this country called Nigeria. I write with great passion. Am not paid to write. If we all refuses to speak up against the ills  of the overt societies, we will surely be drown in the ocean of ignorance. We must all come out of our comfort zones to challenge the abnormalities of governance. We must prove to the leaders that we are not animals but humans with higher IQ. Gone are those days we all hard no voice. But today, the social media, has given every citizens a voice to speak when necessary, to criticize constructively, and to make any subject matters go viral across the international communities. Our government should give us stable power supply, portable water supply, good road, an egalitarian society, sound education, and job creations! Imagine a fresh graduate whose mind is to get a good job, Nigerian govt will shatter such visions. For the facts people like my self where able to create jobs for themselves and employed others without govt support whatsoever, we must thank  God for his mercies as well as urge our govt to assist individual organization and entrepreneurs to grow our staggering economy. I will never forget how I personally disturbed the minister for culture and tourism under this governance to support my event.omo, I called this minister over and over, even at midnight, yet he refused to support my event! So so promise promise ministers! 

Nigeria will be great again when we establish rule of law, justice for all, and progressive minds. 

The success of one, does not taste another. 

My name is Clifford igwe, aka cliff dboss. A prolific writer, event mc, movie producer, motivational speaker, exponent"political psychology, author "introduction to political psychology, and the man blessed with too much knowledge and wisdom. Titled given to me by my fans across the globe. 

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Read why apc will win ondo state election credibly"cliff dboss"

Politics and humanity, are interchangeable  entity Because one can not function without another. Politics is in us. We can't take away politics from humans. Politics are played virtually in every aspects of our human existence. Therefore, we can't deny our core existence as a political being. Politics are played in the families, schools , churches, mosque, workplaces, sports, entertainment, and etc. We had one or two occasions applied politics in our doings, speeches, acts, and our sense of judgment. In this regards, we can not reduce our mortal entity and sense of reasonings from becoming apolitical. No human is apolitical no matter how we all claimed to be one, our almost sacrifice for taking side to our loves ones, families, and friends when ever issues arises, remained evident to our political sense of judgment. 

Now to the topic of the day. 

Apc as a political party has never been a rejected political party by my follow nigerians. For the fact apc lost her governorship election in Edo state, doesn't mean the entire Nigerian populace are members  of the opposition party(pdp). Nigerian electorates does not rejects political party but a candidate. Oh yes. My political research has clearly shown that elections are won by the personality of the candidates and the numbers of personalities that shown some political solidarity support for their preferred candidates. This attest to the fact that Nigerian electorates are now wiser, and of more intelligent compare to their leaders. Gone are those days where a certain political godfather will tell the electorates to vote for his preferred candidate with out any convincing evidence to show why his candidate should be voted for. Now, assessment has became the political watchdog for every Nigerian electorates. These present new political epoch or dispensation is all about overt assessment not covert assessment. No body wants to know about ur future plans, every body is interested with how u spent ur past. And if ur past is nothing to write home about, ur chances for winning any elections in Nigeria is slim. To worsen the matter, if the person who presented the candidate to the electorates is corrupted with poor sense of empathy to the plight of the suffering Nigerian masses, such candidate will fail his election. 

Ondo state was once a pdp state. But now an apc state. Therefore, if all the political party joins together to restle power from the incumbent governor Rotimi Akeredolu, he will still win with wide margin. Reasons been that he is a strong personality loved by his people. 

(1)The incumbent governor has performed beyond expectations. 

(2)it is obstructively  difficult to defeat an incumbent governor. 

(3)He has sufficient resources to control the minds of the electorates which others does not have. 

(4)He does not have any political godfather. In this case, if the likes of Bola tinubu goes to ondo state to campaign for him, the people of ondo state knows that tinubu is not akeredolu, s godfather. The people of ondo state knows that he was never Tinubu, s choice of candidate because he defeated Tinubu, s choice of candidate during apc primary election for the ondo state apc governorship primaries. And 

(5)He is a humble politicians loved by his people. 

No particular geo-political zone can be ascribed to be a pdp zone or apc zone when it comes to any election. The only problem is the personality of the candidate presented to the electorates. For example, Adamawa was once an apc state after pmb, s election as nig president. Today adamawa, is now pdp state because the party presented a candidate loved by the people. Same thing synanimously with bayelsa state which was once a pdp state. Yet apc candidate won the pdp candidate if not for the judicial judgment that ousted Mr lyion out of office and replaced him with his defeated rival. Political parties most learn to search for the right candidate who is unblamish  both in character and in actions. 

apc is not going to win ondo state because southwest loves apc. Apc will win ondo because the current governor who is an apc candidate is a man loved by his people. No Tinubu influence. Wether he campaign for apc or not, it doesn't stop apc from winning ondo state. But tinubu, s campaign for the apc candidate may reduce akeredolu, s vote for the opposition in some local government. But that will never stop him from winning the election comes 10th of oct 2020.

Congrats in advance. 

My name is Clifford igwe, aka cliff dboss. A prolific writer, motivational speaker, event mc, exponent political psychology, author "introduction to political psychology, and the man blessed with too much knowledge and wisdom. Title given to from my fans across the globe. For more info. Watch and like my YouTube page so u can watch some of my movies @mr and Mrs democracy production. 

Nigeria @60 with poor vision"cliff dboss"

 Join me and facilitate with Nigerians for her 60th independence annivarsary celebration. 60 years remains a significant number in correcting lapses of the past that has held us retrogressive virtually in every facets of our national development. A man @ 60,must have evaluated and reevaluates his existence of life to be able to realize where he must have failed in taking care of his families. These assessment must be a routine in every physical years of his birthday celebration. It becomes embarrassingly abnormal when a full matured man is still crawling like a little baby with out any support whatsoever. Nigeria as a country with multi faceted problems ranging from poor leadership, nepotism, religious bigotrism, power intoxication, and poor infrastructural decay that has ravaged our economy. We must make concerted efforts to dismantle the above mentioned problems in order to move our dear country forward. We must uphold the vision of our founding fathers whose Undying love for the unity of one nigerianess is unquestionable. We must tell our selves the bitter truth in assessing how we all started when our colonial masters was incharge of the affairs of governance and our present democratic dispensation if we are making progress or not. We must ask our selves this unavoidable questions! What is the reasons celebrating Nigeria independence when her own citizens are now a slave in their own country? We must also ask our selves, is our judicial system independent? Is Nigeria legislative arms of govt independent? If yes, help me and pinpoint any legislations made that carries human face? Is our armed forces independent? If yes, why are they been used to dispels well meaning Nigerian from a peaceful protests? Are Nigerians independent? If yes, why do some section of the country believed Nigeria belongs to a particular region? Are our electoral body independent? If yes, why do our political class uses the same independent electoral empire to subvert the overall wishes of the electorates in any visible general, or bye-elections? Our political leaders, must give Nigerians a re-assurance for a better living. We must be reassured of our one nigerianess in spirit and our doings. Nigerians must be reassured for a true egalitarian society. We must be reassured for  protection of our human foundational rights without any undue pressure in infringement of that right. We must be reassured to elevate majority of the Nigerian citizens from object poverty and total negligence.  We must be reassured that every responsible hardworking nigerians must be given adequate government support to flourish. We must be reassured in protection of lives and property of every nigerians irrespective of our social stratification, cultural differences, genders, and regional boundaries which to me is the paramount objective for leadership and governance.live and property protection is the core responsibility shouldered on every elected or appppointed leaders. We must be reassured that every  intelligent opinions of all nigerians must be taken into cognizance. 

We must re-vatilize our educational sector which has suffered alot of infrastructural deficit. We must curb our insecurities into a peaceful arena where businesses can thrive. We must work collectively to challenge our poor leadership in governance. 

We must dislodge every obstacles that has hampered positive development in our dear country. 

Un examined life, is not worth living. 

Happy independence anniversary to Nigeria. 

My name is Clifford igwe, aka cliff dboss, prolific writer, motivational speaker, event mc, exponent political psychology, author "introduction to political psychology, movie producer, and the man blessed with too much knowledge and wisdom. Tittle given to me by my fans across the globe. Stay safe as we celebrate!