Monday, 8 June 2020

five signs to identify when ur friend is no longer interested with ur social media chat"cliff dboss"

Social media platform,  undoubtedly provided a level playing field where people of different strata  leveraged such platform to interact with one another,show some cares to their loved ones, show some high level of arrogance, uneducated attitude, bad perception on any subject matters on various personalities etc. Thanks for the use of social media.at least we can now easily assess people,s  original behaviors and that of their bad manners with poor upbringing as well as social media fakery!gone are those days when prospective husbands abandoned their working engagement to gather vital information concerning the family of the girl he intends to marry as well as tried to spend some quality time with her for the  authenticity of her character before marriage rites. In this case, the man tries to finds out who are her friends and what they do for a living. He tries to know her family history if they have any forms of pathology that is hereditary, he tries to find out how many women in their family that have lasted in their matrimonial home. Trust me,  all this information are on the social media only if u can carry out proper research through the affectant mutual friends on facebook or her friends list. Shamefully to say that 80 percent of marriage breakup has been arrogantly announced on the social media either from the man or from the woman. Social media behaviours shouldn't be taking for granted while chatting with him or her. Signs to know when a girl  is not interested in u ,are as follows :
(1)she does not chat u up :yes!when a woman is in love with u, u will be the first person she will like to say hi to when ever she is online.but if she doesn't care of ur existence know she never loved u.
(2)she ignores ur messages .this is another sign to notice she does not want ur friendship therefore stay clear from her! Love is not by force.
(3)she does not care of ur well-being. What this means is that she believes that asking u how are u, is a waste of material time and such care will make u to believe she loves u. As such, she does not want u to have such impression about her feelings! For example, u say"hi,she refused to reply u even when it is evidently unjustifiable that she is online. U now say another hi, she refused to reply u for the second time. And u continued to say hi for more than five times before she will reluctantly say hi back to u. And when u now say how are u doing? She will say fine without saying and urs? When u ask her if she has eaten, she would say "why asking? My dear run! She is not interested at all. So I employ u to borrow some sense young man.
(4)she now sees ur chat as disturbance to her good mood! What this means is that she easily can get angry at every little words u may use for her. As such, she will render all forms of abusive words on you to enable u stop chatting her. But those lover boy who often wants to be loyal to Evey woman will began to beg and pet her to calm down! My dear friend, that ur tactics on her won't work if she does not love u! As matter of fact, girls likes hard guys who doesn't send them! So don't fool ur self guys.
(5)she see, s ur jokes as foolishness! Dear friend, when a girl is in love with u, every jokes u crack for her Will become very pleasant to her ears.and she will reply u with lol or smiles even when such jokes has no intellectual meaning with out flesh. She makes u to feel comfortable during chat so u will notice she also loves u! But when she is not interested, Guy if u like  crack all the whole jokes Untill jokes get exhausted from ur mouth, she will not say lol nor smiles. Rather,she will ask u, what is the meaning of this? She will say please am busy! The next she will do is to tell u that she does not have time for all this right now. For those bad girls, she will ask u to send her card just to drive u away! Yet those foolish boys will send her card just to make her believe he loves her. To crown it all, when she finally received the airtime, she will not still use that airtime to call u in order to inform u she loaded the card let alone say think u for the card u sent to her. Yet u guys will not still learn! Look, if any girl is really in love with a guy, she will be very scared or shy to ask u for money or recharge card.reasons been that she does not want u to run away or see  her person as one who is too demanding cos ur relationship with her is till in a formative stage! Money can't buy love, but love can buy love! Be wise!
My name is Clifford Igwe aka cliff dboss, movie producer, motivational speaker, event Mc, exponent political psychology, author "introduction to political psychology, and the man blessed with too much knowledge and wisdom. For more info visit.mrandmrsdemocracy@gmail.com