There is a common Maxim that says"whatever a man can do,women can do more better.oh yes,women all over the world are pushing so hard this days competing with the male folks virtually in every facets that compels Human endeavors. Their relentless efforts in making the society fairly equal for her inhabitants, is unassumingly realistic. These however, has unimaginably placed the society competitive in assuaging every patterns of discretion for her inhabitants. I respect women who are hard workers.I respect many women that spends what they earn.I respect women whose ultimate goals in life is to ensuring the society is a place for equality for the both genders not sectional.i also respect women who are financially independent through hard work and also morally means of making their money not the other ways round.every woman is uniquely an achievers. Every hard working woman is a bunch of immeasurable resilient. Every responsible woman,are better managers.one of the overt problem associated with an independent women,is not her financial independency, but her arrogant behavior. A good independent woman with some ethical behavioural decency, does not have a 100 percent decisions of her anticipated actions,rather,she is equally Patience to draw some inferials of ideas and wisdom from her husband through face to face conversational ideas in order to arrive at a conclusive arena.such garage of ideas can only come as a result of brainstorming with her confidant (husband) whose intelligent inputs of knowledge and wisdom is for the total benefit of her objectives, families, and to the society at large.every behavior, must hav a protoplasmic variable that initiates such actions of behaviors. Therefore, when ever a decision is taking by any woman without proper consultations from her husband,such behavior and decisions must be taking in error. Except official decisions, and career decisions where her husband is completely unknowledgeable.in this case,she hav the sole right to her decisions but will as well as communicate such decisions to her man after such decisions has been taking officially at the office in order to abreast him with the happenings at the work place.I am sure,many women will systematically object to this.but the truth remained unshakable. Now when such official decisions has been taking at the work place with out updating ur man on the happenings at the office,if eventually there are any forms of financial misappropriation or poor documentation against you in the office,will u hav the courage to confide to ur man?how do u confide to him when u arrogantly took those decisions and refused to inform him after such official decisions where taking?my dear friend, if ur man was not there when those decisions where practically taking,why now in cooperating him into ur official problem?A friend of mine who is a banker,processed every documents to enable her client procured a loan from her bank while she kept her husband totally in the dark.but when her client ran away with the said 10 million naira loan,my friend went ballistic within the bank environ with many of her Collogue who initially advised her not to get her self involved into such venture in the first place. Assumably, the entire seniror appears as if her Collogue where mocking at her ignorance and foolish decisions. She remorsefully informed her rich husband of such official irrational decisions taking at work which she never told him before it was taking. The end result of her official foolish decisions now became a serious financial burden to her husband trying to re-pay the loan money both him and his wife never bargained for!this is the irony of an independent woman with a foolish decisions. Do u agree with me that the richest African woman florinsho Alakija,still cook for her husband,?,do u also agree with me that she also washes her husband,s inner wears and his cloth?this is romantic not dutiful. Because she has the financial power to procure the service of any domestic staff whose only work is to do all these for her man!am not saying she does not hav a domestic staff who primary obligations is to do all this at her home.but that of her husband,is exclusive for her alone.to me,that is the real independent woman of virtue. Now,let's look at the characteristic's of a good independent woman.
(1)AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN, MUST BE SUBMISSIVE:
(2)AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN MUST CONSULTS HER MAN BEFORE ARRIVING AT ANY DECISIONS.
(3)AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN,MUST BE GOD FEARING.
(4)AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN MUST BE SINCERE TO HER MAN.
And
(5)AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN MUST BE A FINANCIAL SUPPORT SYSTEM TO HER FAMILY.
Don't also forget that every financially independent woman,is a woman that hav a good man whose overall decisions in making her woman become financially independent due to his love for her dreams,visions,and objectives in making significant impact to ur families and the society. I therefore, implore u,to be submissive to ur man and do not let ur wealth or ur material acquisition to override ur sense of submissiveness to ur man.many men who are wicked and want to deserved total submissiveness from their women,starts by making them unproductive financially in such a way that they now depend totally from their husband.there are many men who practically asked their wives to resigned from her place of work yet refused to set up any business for her!and there are many men who find it difficult to set up any business for their wives due to frugality and total control of her woman.this is illogical and detaste a sane society!therefore,for those women whose husband allowed to work,do her own personal business ,control her own money,and spend her own money on the things that matters to her.such men must be applauded and be given credence for such a magnanimous decisions.don't also forget that the said capital u used to set up that ur business, was brought out by ur man!therefore u must submit ur self to him at all cost.
The purpose for every things,is in the thing himself.be wise.
My name is Clifford nnamdi igwe,aka cliffdboss. Prolific writer,motivational speaker, events Mc,exponent of political psychology, author of"introduction to political psychology. And the man blessed with too much knowledge and wisdom. A title giving to me by my loving fans across the world.for more info.email:mrandmrsdemocracy@gmail.com
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