Five systematic patterns to avoid violence against women.

Violence against women is on rampage and as such the society has come under depressed pressures with inproper remedies to challenge this unacceptable behavior duly associated with chronic aggressive behavior. Violence against women hav been an aged long practices but remained unpublicly pronounced especially in the african societies due to lack of availability of informative avenue to register the visibility of such an unwanted act.unlike now where there are great influence of the social media to report this crime in a pictorial or written evidence.however,violence against women is a serious crime that should be cut into pieces and discard such behavior completely away from our overt environment as it portends a great danger to the societal well-being. On the contrarily, I think there are several ways we can avoid gender violence or domestic violence against women and they are:(1):women must master the act of been respectful to the man:Been respectful, does not mean been unable to know ur right and when ur right is been trample upon but the way and manner u handle such unwanted character determines if u had saved domestic violence or initiates it ur self through ur speech and actions. (2):when ever a grumpierd husband is talking on what u did not do right,be quite: been humbly quiet when ever ur man is talking aggressively, the only behavioral pattern to calm the fary nerve is to remain silent even when u know ur right and have something to say.keep it to ur self when his temper is calm,kindly and respectfully approach him and explain to him what u think he misperceived ur actions and inactions,he will surely ask for forgiveness for mistakenly shouted at u.(3):don't starve ur man of food he personally worked hard and provides: some women are always in the habits of denying their man food when he got them angry and they believed, the only way to punish the man is to starve him of food.Remember, "A hungry man, is an angry man!Anger is nothing but expression of un deserving treatment from another person.so learn how to be ur self.(4):don't starve him of sex:sex is nothing but pleasures when u are in a relaxed mood not in a violent mood.for the pleasure will never be felt and enjoyed when agony of the hearts fits in.some women today willingly, deny their legally husband sex without any tangible excuses just to punish her man when she is angry with the man.in this case,if the woman is not in the mood for sex,the way and manner she will approach such subject matter must be in a respectful manner.u can tell him" honey,pls let's do it tomorrow am so tied for sex now but if u insist to,I will still give it to u but u know that It  will really hot me cos I am not in the mood.then Peck him on the face.Trust me,such man is not a coward to ask u to open ur legs for a sex that day he will automatically understand ur stressful and emotional plights by pecking u too on the face and tells u"good night I love u.(5):don't shout at ur man:some women are in the habit of shouting at their men with just little provocative events.no man wants to be shouted at by his own wife that ought to be loyal and submissive to him.learn how to approach him when ur mind is not in a boiling state so that u can outline all that hots u about him.in doing that he will attentively listen to u and he will desist from such attitude as well as initiate attitudinal changes.(6):don't invite any third party to step into ur marital disputes: some men personally do not want any third party to know how he runs his home.To him, that is his personal enterprise. Learn how to engage him with conflicts resolutions mechanism through dialogue in a conducive serene. And (7):don't compare ur man with another successful person when ever u have issues with him.pls forward this to many that are in need of it today.for counseling, pls contact me@ superstarcliff306@gmail.com