Effect of social media psychology by"cliff dboss"

The use of social media, has strethened the basis for freedom of speech and association.social media,provides us a vital tools for dissemination of information to the larger society through appropriate channels made available for her explorers. On the contrary, many has used this platform to generate all manners of fake news,as well as fake media information to the general public Without properly re-examine the consequences that awaits such pieace of information to the general public. Fake media information,must be tamed and tamed to the bearest minimum. We all crave for a peaceful society in one way or the other, as well as wants to disconnect our selves from what ever formats that engenders risk behaviours that are inimical to human progress and its psychological well-being. Social media  is a good omen to those who knows the primary purpose for using social media handles. I can confidently inform u that many social media users are making a great fortune with the use of their social media handles. While those social media rants whose obvious obligations is to insult and render all forms of abuses on various personalities they litrarily knows nothing about except some little piece of information they donates to the general public. We can not deduct our mortal knowledge from the realities. The abstract world belongs to the astronuts ,not the physical world. We all belonged to the physical world where reasoning,  corelates with the physical world of realism not mentalphysical. As such, we must be able to differentiate bad from good, sense from reasoning, pleasantness from unpleasantness, low from high, rich from the poor, educated from the uneducated, and respect from disrespectfulness. In doing this, we must certainly affiliate ourselves from our original background of identity. The excruciating effects for  fake news,is that it gravitate to a debilitating effect in a way that it breaks down the emotional and psychological well-being of the affectants. This however, gives rise to all forms of stimulus response of depressive behaviours. Social media can be regulated in order to pursuing a saner society by sanctioning those whose only obligatory performance is to bring down innocent social media users for vendetta and chaotic exercise for self agradizement. In this regard, the issues of hate speech and identify crisis will be curtailed.
The negative  effect of social medias are as
Follows :
(1) it is distractive:yes,i said it is distractive in a way that, many social media users with poor knowledge of making a fortune out of their datas, ignorantly uses their overt time to search for irrelevant things online. Instead of searching for a useful knowledge that will further broading their intelligual sense of reasoning In assisting their businesses,academics,enterpreneural skills,and and career or vocational training. Dear friends, many has used this same social media platform to learn various skills on how to make cosmetics, computer training, movie or music video editing, cooking, as well as event management techniques for personal enhancement of human or vocational knowledge!many are busy watching pornographic movies online, cartoons,video game etc. The question is, to what positive effects are ur engagement online to ur personal development? To what effects are ur understanding on what u do online? To what effects are your learning prowees online for the benefit of ur immediate environment? And to what effect are ur online time consumption to ur entire well-being? If the questions above appeared somewhat logical Or perhaps rational, please cogitate over them and donate to ur selves a valid answer through proper self examination and make a placement of what has became of you using the social media space.
(2)social media increases higher rate of depressions:recent researches has shown that several cases of depressive behaviours that has led to some of the victims untimely death, are caused from their inability to manage social media  disadvantages associated with false accusations, network failures when it matters most to the users to access information or watching of contents, abusive antagonist, low self esteem, and poor usage of English language with errionous spelling of words.
(3)identity crisis:this is another factors that is capable of throwing a well behaved personality into a state of oblivion. Identify crisis is a serious matter that must be kept in proper check on the social media space. Identify crisis is unavoidably capable of causing any forms of unrest if not properly verified. It is explanably vivid to say that many social media users do not verified source of information before helping or assisting to re-post Any news from any social media handles. Many had used fake media handles to defraud innocent individuals of their hard earned fortune. Claiming to be this and that! It is belivably uncontestable to say that, our vice president who happened to be the second citizen of Nigeria, his name and pictures where used by the internet fraudsters to defraud the public Through impersonations.infact,many well known personalities in the society, has fallen victim of some sorts where their images are used to open a social media handles to mislead the public with their unwanted alterances just to cause gravious political and religious tensions Unverified.many celebrities are not left out of this social anormalies. Some celebrities dutifully and intentionally opened a fake social media handles where they uses those handles as an arsenal to dislodge their opponents whom they perceived as threat to their fading or dying career through all forms of social bullies and fact shaming attitude against their opponents in their fields of career. For example, u will hear things like"my dear go and get married ur mates are all married, are u still using this ur old car when ur mates in the industry are using exotic cars? Common simi, ur dressing is very awkward like a market woman! Tiwa, ur just a prostitute go back to ur husband and leave wizkid alone cos he is not ur age mate! Wizkid go and rest, ur a short man, Davido, ur not the best artist because most of ur hit songs are not written by u! Tonto dike, mind ur business and stop abusing ur husband that he is a one minute man! Genevieve, old age is telling on you, stop dating married men go and get ur own husband! Lol. These are the kind of words we often hears from most of all this fake social media handles whose duty is to attack not to compliment.
(4)social media creates room for jealousy and enviness :many friends today has turned to enemies due to the use of social media. This is because,many friends who are friends in the day time,but devilish at night against their friends. This things happened not because ur so unkind to them, but because their jealousy wouldn't allow them to see beyond their nose. For example, when u buy a new car and u post it on ur social media handle it makes them feel absurdly below ur class. When u buy or built a new house, they feels so uncomfortable because they believed ur surpassing their achievements within a little space of time u found ur self in the same career with them. When u get nominated for an award, they indirectly fight against u by ensuring u do not get the award. When u finally gets the award, they spread the news to their fans on how u slept ur ways through before getting the award they believed u never merited. Do u also believe me that many goes as far as using diabolical means to eliminate their perceived enemies out of the game for them to grow and shines? Do u also agree with me that many do send assassins to attack any shinning stars in their areas of profession? Do u also concur with me that many do pay some bloggers to carry defamatory news against their opponents in order to paint them black before the public? All these are product of what social media has offered to the society whose users obnoxious intents is to defamed, disrespect,abused,and render our aged long moral society into a chaotic states of lawlessness and idiocycracy.

(5)social media followers :this is another factor that has thrown many social media users emotionally unstable. Do u agree with me that many social media users oftentimes,buy followers just to prove their popularities?do u also agree with me that many social media users derived joy seeing perceived enemies been attacked by other social media bullies? Now let's get down! Many celebrities oftentimes updates their social media profiles with all forms of fake material accusations just to keep ontop of their game? I know of a certain celebrity who lives on the same street with me in Lekki in a rented apartment, yet deceiving her fans that she owns a house in Lekki Lagos state! Lol. Many will go as far as going to a car stand,take some pictures with any car of their choice and post it on their social media handles just to get more gullible followers! Many celebrities, goes as far as begging cooperate organizations to use them as brand ambassador for free just to bear the name a brand ambassador to a certain cooperate organizations.forgetting that they are spoiling market for the real stars and the real prospective stars to come into the industry. Many celebrities are offensively worried about how many likes they get from any post they make on social media. Many of them often go into depression when the numbers of followers and postlikes began to drop like a drying up water from the tap! Many of them tries everything humanly possible to maintain their fake lifestyles yet within them, they knew they lack so many things the public do not know about! Honestly,i homour at some of all this fans begging some celebrities for money! forgetting that they are even more richer and doing well more than some of this celebrities who paints themselves in an afulence way just to continue the make-believe industry we all are into.
Is better to start low and become high,than becoming high and later low to the pit of poverty where u now solicit for funds to pay medical bills etc.
My name is Clifford Igwe, aka cliff dboss. Prolific writer, motivation speaker, event Mc, movie producer, exponent of political psychology, author of "introduction to political psychology, and the man blessed with too much knowledge and wisdom. This title is given to me by my fans across the globe.
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The president we wished never became president by"cliff dboss"

Leadership entails high sense of direction. Leadership is to guide and guide right. Leadership, is to decide on the positive path that will lead  the people to a promised land of unity and progress .not to divide. Leadership gives room for fair and equal treatment irrespective of gender differences and ethic hegemony. Leadership pursue fair hearing from the wearing factions in any political parties in arriving at a concrete decision making in promoting peace and good sense of direction. Leadership is devoid of egocentricism and despotic tendencies. Leadership is devoid of religious bigotrism and poor visions.leadership gives room to re-build and to re-direct Illed perception for the overall interest of the masses not sectional. Now, let's look at buhari leadership styles. Look, this man has failed the people he leads with such a monumental failure that will never be erased quickly in the history of this nation. A president that lack political will to confront myriads of challenges bedevilling his political party, is a great failure. I had said this with all due respect that this present administration of buhari is filled with religious sentiment. And as such,will never give to the Nigerian populace a sound dividends of democracy it duely deserves. A president that lack the ability to take decision once and for all, shouldn't have been made president in the first place. People are afraid to call a spade a spade, yet they wallow in grave silence showering praise on one who does not deserve it. Apc as a political party today is suffering from 20203 politics because the man at the helm of affairs has been working effortlessly to Favour A particular prospective presidential candidate whom president buhari is so afraid of. Bola Tinubu controls the presidency, national house of assemblies, and the party structure.am so amazed .
 Even Mr President we all campaigned so hard to win his re-election, could be subjected to been under the dictates of Tinubu,s party whims and caprice.  Today ,Apc national chairman Adams oshiomole  bounced back steering the party affairs after all the atrocities been committed by him in handpicking members of the newly Apc national working committee against the wish of the people.yet Mr President keyed to bola Tinubu and oshomole gimmick g
For their fake party supremacy. And I ask this questions?is the party supremacy only meant to favour bola Tinubu and his cronies? Is the party supremacy made to enable Tinubu to have firm control of the party structure to further gavalnize support for his 20203 presidential ambition? Am totally fed of this party called Apc. As a bonifide and card carried member of Apc, I have the right to air my opinion where necessary. Today, we hear all manners of statements coming from bola Tinubu saying pmb shouldn't be distracted because of 20203 politics.deceiving those that cares to listen that they are distracting this present admistration With 20203 politics. Now, the issues that prompted anti oshiomole protest, has it been resolved by Mr President? The issues of appointing abiola Ajimobe as the Apc south vice chairman which constitutionally was a position meant for the fmr occupant of Ekiti State Apc chieftain resolved? Why hurriedly announcing the same person that led to some of the present problems Apc Is facing? Where does Mr President belong? Look most of this Apc governors pretending not to call Mr President to order, will disgrace him after Mr President  leaves office. Mr President will become a nobody to them come 20203.they are afraid to talk cos they don't want to be perceived as been disloyal to Mr President yet they are directly or indirectly not happy with his decisions. If all this governor's are bold enough to challenge Mr President the same way bola Tinubu do challenge his bad decisions, trust me, he will listen to them and do the right thing. Mr President alone can never be Apc.and Apc can never be Mr President alone. When he  Mr President supported fmr Apc national chairman onyegun, bola Tinubu challenged him and he was dropped which gave emergence of oshiomole. When same Mr President wanted to pick his own running mate during the 2015 presidential election, same Tinubu stood his ground and osinbanjo was picked. When same Mr President was searching for who becomes the speaker of the house of assemblies, same bola Tinubu single-handedly picked his man and buhari subjected to that decision. What am saying is that, those governors and other Apc chieftain should rise up to their challenges and stop saying all this yes sir kind of politics to Mr President. Mr President must understand that he who jails, will be jail if not been careful on who succeds him. He must understand that those who seeks for his permission before convening Apc nec meeting, is more sincere and loyal to him compared to those who single-handedly appoints NWC members without his permission but convinced him to accept their nominees for NWC. Mr President must understand that he who quickly announced Ajimobe as the Apc south vice chairman after oshiomoles suspension, is more of 20203 politics to that of Mr President strength for good governance . Mr President must also understand that politics of religious sentiment will never give him any honour after living office. Mr President must also understand that he who favours some section of his political party, will also be spat at by the same party members after leaving office. Mr President must also understand that he who rush into quick decision without proper examination of the facts that led to the party fracas, is building more enemies within himself and outside his party constituents. Mr President must also understand that every Apc party members, contributed in one way or the other for his emergence as president. Mr President must be very meticulous while handling party politics for unity Sake!
No man is made brave! We all developed bravity to solve problems. We must have respect for constituted authorities.but at the same time, be brave to speak nothing but the truth where they erred.
Politics of unreasonable  yes sir, is nothing but cowardice .
Be wise.
My name is Clifford Igwe. Aka cliff dboss,political psychologist ,Motivational speaker, event Mc, exponent of political psychology, author "introduction to political psychology, and the man blessed with too much knowledge and wisdom .

For more info. Mrandmrsdecracy@gmail.com

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OSHIOHMOLE AND TINUBU, S APC IRONY FOR PARTY SUPREMACY BY"CLIFFDBOSS.

Political parties are formed not appointed. The idea of forming a formidable political parties, is a collective efforts of the members of the political parties not individualistic. Therefore, the power for making any  decision   best suited for the interest of the political parties not for any parochial reasons. Such must be unanimously glued to the chargrin of the voice of the majorities as against the minorities. Political party is the assemblage of group or individuals from various ethinic background, academics,families, social class, senatorial zones, and religious background coming together to champion party visions for the betterment of the society in propelling a unified directional visions for the overall growth and development of her nation. If the definition above is something to go by, then no individual could perceived himself as the Lord for any political party or assumed to use a political party as a personal empire where decision making becomes totalitarian Like the case of the apc and her current national leader bola Tinubu. who believes, Apc as a political party is his personal estate. Look, let me tell u, all this anomalies bedevilling Apc as a political party with leadership failure and poor visionary leadership is happening due the visible fact that ,president buhari is shying away from his party leadership responsibility as the president of the nation .which by the virtues of his first citizenship position placed him as the leader of his political party. The current crisis rocking Apc and her outgoing national chairman Adam oshiomole did not start today  as we all perceived it to be. First, the outgoing chairman has been insensitively autocratic while taking decision as the chairman of the party with due consultation with the apc national leader who controls eventually all his decisions undermining mr president who by the virtue of the constitution, is pressumably  the leader of the party. However, when ever their poor decisions backfires, they runs to the president whom they never consulted before those decisions where unilaterally taking to suit their political interest for the 2023 presidential ambition of Tinubu whom Adam oshiomole is working for. A classical example of their self serving decision, was the nomination and the appointment of the apc national working committee members where fmr Governor Of oyo state who was unable to retain his state as the then incumbent Governor Of the state for apc,now appointed as the


 Apc south vice chairman. Now, they are championing party supremacy as a toga in order to bring in Mr political novice (Mr President) who is not ready to learn  the politics been played by bola Tinubu and oshiomole which is ronically played for self serving interest. Look, Mr President, if there is any body who had failed Apc as a political party, it should be you who had shy away with the required leadership responsibility to place ur political  party in a sound leadership. I therefore,  ask this questions to Mr President. what is the basis For forming three men committee to swing into action for the current crisis rocking the outgoing  national chairman of the apc



 for his misfortune he personally signed for? What is Mr President trying to tell the Apc party faithfuls?is Mr President saying that  the court judgement that suspended the Apc national chairman should not be adhere to? Anyway, we all know Mr President as one with no regards for the sanctity of any court judgement. Is Mr President trying to safe Adams oshiomole in order for him not to tell the Nigerian populace some secrets threatened by the same outgoing national chairman against him about who is running the affairs of the country? Is Mr President whom we all know as a religious bigot who only keyed to the idea of ousting Mr John onyengu because he was a Christian and was about to be replaced by a southern Muslim called Adam oshiomole?The present  quagmire happening in Apc as a political party is all about 2023 presidency which Tinubu and oshiomole is using to distablize Apc for their egocentric reasoMS. Let truth be told, is Adam oshiomole loyal to Apc, buhari or Tinubu? The answer is, he is working for Tinubu and disloyal to the real leader of the political party in the person of Mr President. I say this with cogent and verifiable reasons. If truly he is working for the interest of the political party or he is loyal to Mr President, why did he not consult Mr President before hurriedly announcing the names of the new national working committee members of the party after the court virdict?and who are the newly elected members of the national working committee? Are they loyal to Mr President or to bola Tinubu? Reasons been that, in a situation where he Adams oshiomole loses his job as the national chairman, Tinubu, s man been Ajimobi will take over and becomes the new national chairman of the apc To enable bola Tinubu achieve his presidential ambition. The issues surrounding dethronement of sanusi as the amir of Kano state could be directly or indirectly connected to the visit by the governor of Kaduna State malam el-rufai whom kanduje now perceived as working against bola Tinubu presidential ambition due to their connection for in-lawship that bides him and the fmr Governor Of oyo state in the person of Ajimobi. But kanduje should be careful and aware that the marriage between his daughter and that of the Ajimobi, s son, is a political marriage that will not last if Tinubu ambition is not realized come 20203.kanduji is a serial betrayal who betrayed his fmr boss kwankwaso using president buhari ambition as a yardstick to clinch to power as the governor of Kano state. Today he is bragging to have given president buhari millions of electoral votes to win presidential election yet he struggled to win his Pdp opponent who convingly wanted to chase him out of office with his wide acceptable votes from the people of Kano state. Kanduje electoral value has been dropped and can not be regarded as been relevant.  let him not deceived Mr President. have we asked our selves why the outgoing national chairman adopted both direct and indirect Apc primaries? Which to me, is the real caused of Apc problems. The direct and indirect primaries adopted by Adam oshiomole is to give Tinubu and kanduje to have a soft landing  for the apc presidential tickets. Now, the ground plan is for Lagos state Apc and Kano state Apc to adopt direct primaries since they have the highest numbers of the Apc registered  members across the nation. Constitutionally, Lagos state 57 local government which they called LCDAs,is not duely recognized by the virtue of the Nigeria constitution. Therefore, the direct primaries will now assist Lagos state apc to closed that constitutional gap and leverage on their population to win Apc party presidential primaries. Mr President must stop giving Adam oshiomole audience pending the determination of the court of appeal who is vested with the power to upturn or upheld his suspension from his Apc political ward. Otherwise, Mr President action will become a clear contempt to the court virdict that got him suspended. Let Mr President allow the law take her due roles. Every politician, is a game player with the perception to win her opponent in which ever ways It manifest itself.
My name is Clifford Igwe. Aka cliffdboss, prolific writer, motivational speaker, event Mc, exponents of political psychology,author of "introduction to political psychology. And the man blessed with too much knowledge and wisdom. For more info.mrandmrsdemcracy@gmail.com

"social media psychology by"cliffdboss.

The advernt of social media, has created alot of global connectivities to families and friends for an easy passage of information crucial to both the sender and the recipient. Social media  formations, originally is to reach out to a wider range of audience in transmitting information on entertainment, education, sports, politics, families and friends. Today, we see alot of social media  psychophants who did not only abused the used of social media with their inciting statements capable to create  societal unrest,as well as abusive behavior against certain reputable personalities. And I asked this question! Is the use of social media a course? Can the use of social media be regulated in pursuing a sane society? How do we regulate the use of social media with out infridging on human fundamental rights to speech? What do we need to do to ensuring some media touts whose only business in joining the social media platform is to rain abuses and insult to personalities ordinarily they lack the power to approach in a face to face conversation? What are the solution to this social media menace? Is there an age limit to social media users? Is social media meant for everybody irrespective of its misusage and misdirections that has characterized and mared the original designed for the usage of social media? Must social media users who seats at the comfort of their home,rain abuses on some of our world-class personalities? All in the name of freedom of speech and expression ? Is chatting a crime? Do we have right on whom to chat and whom not to? Is silence to some unuseful messages be regarded as arrogance? All this are  pertinent questions that remained self explanatory to us. Social media psychology, is the study of human personalities with the use of social media platform in expression of feelings, taught, emotions, and it's psychological breakdown that forms a halloweffect of our human social actions. From this discussable topic, we where made to understand that alot has happened using social media platform, alot had happened in our marritial institution due to misusage of social media. Alot of false and unverifiable claims had been unleashed to the innocent social media users whom litteririly has no knowledge of what they are been accused of. Nations has been having one banter of false accusations and the other due to poor knowledge of social media users. It is now expident we tackles this menace before it blows out of proportions.we shall continue this significant topic for my subsequent write up. But for now, relax,enjoy, and read this topic carefully as well as ask ur self some vital questions why u are misusing the social media space with ur obnoxious attitude and unwanted bully to the innocent social media users!stay conscious,as I bring u the full package of this topic next week.
Those who are conscious of the future, guide their altterances.why does who are not conscious of the future, speaks carelessly and finally became trapped of their yesterdays.
My name is Clifford Igwe, aka cliffdboss. Motivational speaker, event Mc, exponent of political psychology, author of"introduction to political psychology, and the man blessed with too much knowledge and wisdom. Title given to me by my fans across the globe.
For more info. Mrandmrsdemocracy@gmail.com.